By Nyree Van Maarseveen, WHNP, CNM
When it comes to lip filler, one size definitely does not fit all. If you’ve ever wondered why some lip filler results look soft and natural while others seem a bit “too much,” the answer often lies in one key detail: the filler type and technique used for that individual’s lip shape and aesthetic goals.
Discover Top-Rated Lip Fillers in San Diego in this guide.
At Beauty Energy Exchange Aesthetics and Wellness, I take a very personalized approach to lip enhancement. Whether you’re looking for a subtle hydration boost, soft volume, or correction of asymmetry, there’s a perfect product—and strategy—to match.
In this blog post, I’ll walk you through how I choose the best lip filler based on your unique lip shape, facial proportions, and beauty goals. My philosophy? Your lips, but better.
Why Lip Shape Matters More Than You Think
Every pair of lips is beautifully unique—some are naturally full, while others are thinner or asymmetrical. Some people lose volume with age, while others are simply looking for a little more definition. When selecting a lip filler, I always consider your baseline anatomy first.
Here are some of the most common lip types I see in my San Diego med spa:
Thin Lips
If you have naturally thin lips, the goal is often to enhance volume while maintaining balance and proportion. For this, I tend to choose fillers that are soft, flexible, and designed to integrate naturally with your lip tissue. Restylane Kysse is one of my go-tos here—it provides structure but still allows for natural movement.
💡 Pro Tip: Thin lips often benefit from a gradual approach. We might do a conservative initial treatment and build over time for the most natural results.
Asymmetrical Lips
Asymmetry is more common than most people realize. It could be a slight difference between the left and right side of your lips, or a more pronounced imbalance between the top and bottom.
Correcting asymmetry requires a skilled injector and the right product. I often use a combination of Restylane Kysse and RHA2 depending on which areas need more precision or flexibility. The key is not to overcorrect—we’re looking for harmony, not perfection.
Aging Lips
As we age, our lips can lose volume and definition. You may notice vertical lip lines, a “flattened” look, or corners that begin to droop. If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone—and filler can help.
For aging lips, I like to use RHA2 or Restylane Refyne, both of which are designed to treat delicate areas with subtle movement. These fillers not only restore lost volume but also improve texture and hydration.
💡 Bonus: A lip filler treatment can be paired with neuromodulators (like Botox or Dysport) around the mouth to smooth fine lines and enhance overall rejuvenation.
Full Lips Seeking Definition
Some clients come to me with naturally full lips but are looking for more shape or crispness—especially along the vermillion border (the edge of the lips). In these cases, a small amount of a firmer filler like Restylane Contour or RHA3 can provide beautiful definition without adding bulk.
Matching Your Goals with the Right Product
Once I’ve evaluated your lip shape, we’ll talk about your goals. Are you looking for subtle enhancement or a noticeable pout? Do you want your lips to look more hydrated, symmetrical, or youthful? Your answers will help guide my product selection.
Here’s how I match lip filler options with different goals:
Goal: A Subtle, Natural Look
If your goal is to look like the best version of yourself—with lips that don’t scream “I had filler”—I usually recommend:
- Restylane Kysse for softness and flexibility
- RHA2 for light volume and hydration
These fillers are perfect for first-timers or anyone who prefers a “low-key” result.
Goal: More Volume and Fullness
If you want to enhance your lip volume (think pillowy but still natural), I may choose:
- RHA3 or Restylane Contour
These have more structure than Kysse or RHA2, making them better suited for creating fuller lips that still move naturally with your expressions.
Goal: Shape and Border Definition
To refine the edges of the lips or add shape to the Cupid’s bow, I typically use:
- Restylane Kysse for soft definition
- RHA2 for ultra-precise shaping
Sometimes, I’ll pair this with a very small amount of filler in the body of the lips for balance.
Let’s Talk Technique: Why It’s Not Just About the Product
While choosing the right filler is critical, technique plays a huge role in the final result. Lip injections require both artistry and clinical skill. During your appointment at Beauty Energy Exchange, I use advanced techniques—many of which I’ve learned from globally renowned injectors like Julie Horne and Erika Barry.
These techniques include:
- Microdroplet injections for better control and symmetry
- Tenting technique to gently lift the top lip for a “lip flip” effect
- Layering filler over multiple visits for the most natural, long-lasting results
I also use medical-grade numbing cream and offer dental blocks to ensure you’re completely comfortable throughout your treatment.
What If You’re Still Not Sure What You Want?
That’s totally okay! In fact, most clients come in with a general idea (like “I want fuller lips” or “I don’t want to look fake”) but aren’t sure how to get there. That’s what I’m here for.
During your personalized consultation, we’ll go over:
- Your lip anatomy
- Your lifestyle (e.g., how often you’re willing to maintain the results)
- Your aesthetic preferences
- Any previous filler history
Together, we’ll create a lip enhancement plan that feels just right for you.
Frequently Asked QuestionsHow long do lip fillers last?
Most lip fillers last between 6 and 12 months. Longevity depends on the type of filler, how fast your body metabolizes it, and your lifestyle. I always offer a two-week follow-up to check your results and discuss maintenance options.
Will I look overdone?
Absolutely not—unless that’s what you’re asking for (and even then, we’ll have a very honest conversation). My specialty is natural-looking enhancement. Most of my clients get compliments like, “You look refreshed!” not “Did you get filler?”
Can I combine fillers with other treatments?
Yes! I often pair lip filler with treatments like Botox, microneedling, or skincare for a more comprehensive facial rejuvenation plan. We can discuss options based on your goals.
Final Thoughts: Your Lips, Your Look
At Beauty Energy Exchange, my goal is to help you feel like the best version of yourself—never overdone or unnatural. Whether you’re brand-new to lip fillers or exploring your next appointment, I’m here to guide you with care, experience, and a whole lot of heart.
If you’re in the San Diego area and wondering which lip filler is right for your unique features, I’d love to help. Book a consultation with me, and let’s create a beautiful, balanced result you’ll absolutely love.
Beauty Energy Exchange Aesthetics and Wellness
1050 Rosecrans St, Suite 8,
San Diego, CA 92106
https://www.beautyenergyexchange.com
📞 (858) 330-2477
Let’s give your lips the care—and the shape—they deserve. 💋
